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Cold War - Feb 27 2023

 

Cold War

Feb 27 2023


The cold war

vacillated

between warm and cool,

simmering between us

like tepid soup

left too long on the stove.


Some might have called it a civil war.

But those are the worst wars,

and anyway

ours was hardly civil.


Although there was nothing more lethal

than weaponized words.

We provoked

but not openly,

firing-off innuendos

launching little digs.

Practised tactical silences

wielded withering looks.

Targeted the soft underbelly

as only we could know it,

haphazardly scattered mines

like dirty socks on the floor.


Felt good, saying our piece,

but never really listened.

Somewhere, there must have been a hotline,

hard-wired

to be private and direct.

A red phone

with an urgently blinking light

we both left in its cradle.


How love

can turn into this

seems inexplicable,

the same two people

who were once unconditional

becoming implacable foes.

As if a DMZ

or Chinese wall

had come between us,

an Iron Curtain descended.

As if we were Berlin,

East and West.


And when it turned hot

escalated to scalding;

the world as we knew it

up in smoke,

incinerated

simply out of spite.


Like a neutron bomb

that leaves all the assets intact;

fairly divided

but empty of life.


This isn't autobiographical (if I even need to say that anymore!) It's just that I skimmed a piece about a new cold war (the liberal West vs a loose coalition of interests between Russia, China, and other autocracies) and was taken with the idea of cold war as domestic drama.

Cold wars tip into hot because of miscommunication, mutual escalation, and bad faith. Interpersonal relationships, the same.

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