Tuesday, February 14, 2023

Spotlight - Feb 14 2023

 

Spotlight

Feb 14 2023


What would they think?


The thought that's always there

hovering.

The looming peril of shame;

the spotlight

that follows your every move;

the disembodied eyes

peering from out of the darkness.


Except they wouldn't, don’t, will not.

They are too immersed

in themselves

to bother.

Too distracted

by the eyes drilling into them.

Too exposed

in their own glass house

to risk casting stones.


Still, without shame, where would we be?

Along with its constant companion

the worm of guilt

gnawing away from within.

Your inner demons, restrained,

reptilian brain

socialized.


And only when

in the unlikely event

you are pure

and without sin yourself,

will your icy glare

turn on those who fail.


Psychopaths and con-men know how easy it is to hide in plain sight: no one is paying attention, everyone's too self-absorbed. But the spotlight is a useful delusion. Because for social animals, who must get along not only to survive but to thrive, shame is the most powerful instrument of social control. Shame from without; guilt from within. So for ”normal” people — that is, those who have a conscience, as well as compunction — even knowing you can probably get away with it, you don’t.

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