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Afterlife - July 11 2025

 

Afterlife

July 11 2025


I found out that misfortune

doesn't spare the good.

Cells have a mind of their own.

DNA unspools, breaks, forgets

cars intersect

hearts fail.

There can be sudden death

at the hands of violent men.


I’m neither good nor bad

middling at best.

If well-intentioned matters, perhaps I barely pass,

even though it’s really only acts that count

in one’s favour.


So it seems no one’s keeping score

and there’s no reward

for good behaviour.

The universe is random,

things happen

for no reason at all.

And in its vastness

of immeasurable time

and incomprehensible space

the affairs of men are inconsequential;

we think too highly of ourselves.


But when she died

too young, too vital

after such a hard and painful fight

at least her goodness was returned,

an outpouring of help and well wishers

casserole dishes

left at the door,

a memorial service

that overflowed.


She was unaccustomed to receiving.

A giver to the end

she begged forgiveness

for being of trouble,

even kept up her good works

as best she could.

And goodness like hers

continues to serve

a world in need of more.


I subscribe to no religion

worship no God

think death is final.

And so was reassured to learn

from her example

that there’s no need to believe

in heaven or hell

or indefinite limbo,

in resurrection

reincarnation

or disembodied souls

to know

that the good have an afterlife

all their own.


Another of the Globe and Mail’s Lives Lived feature has inspired a poem. But in writing this, my friend Dorothy also came to mind: who died far too young, and at the hands of a violent man.

It’s nice to imagine that virtue will be rewarded in the ever after. But probably far more helpful in getting through the hardships of life (at least for me) is its obverse: clinging to the belief that evil will be punished.

Unfortunately, neither is true. There is no celestial accounting, and no literal afterlife. But good works live on, and unlike us, memories don’t have to die.

https://globe2go.pressreader.com/article/282175067134763


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